Moving into a loveless household?

So, I just heard back from the lady that we were approved to move into the condo we applied for. We just have to wait until the other person moves out...but we will be moved in at the latest, early March. So here I am, about to move in with AJ. The man that I love. The man that I have not told that I love him. Why oh why is it so hard? Well, I know for one thing that I am afraid he won't say it back. I would just feel so weird. I want to say it to him all the time though still, its so hard to keep it in. Lately the thought has been crossing my mind, why hasn't he told me, or made any sort of notion toward it like I do? Maybe, just maybe, he doesn't love me yet. Just very strongly like. I am not exactly sure how I feel about moving into a loveless household. I mean, when 2 people move in together, they are usually in love. This is all sort of strange to me. Sometimes I just want to look at him and shout "Why don't you love me?" "Why would you want to live with me if you don't love me?" I really, really wish I had the answer of what to do. But until then, I will continue, I am sure, to lay awake at night after he has fallen asleep and ponder all these things.